by Arlene | Jun 2, 2014 | Marriage, The Latest ...
It was an ordinary day. But then I had a thought. I remembered something that Bill Farrel had said to me when I was interviewing him for 31 Days to a Happy Husband. “Anything you can do to make life simpler connects to your man’s heart and makes him feel like you...
by Arlene | May 27, 2014 | Parenting, The Latest ...
A few weeks ago, I thoroughly enjoyed watching Moms Night Out. It’s a fabulous movie that will make you laugh and appreciate the “mommy, mommy, MOMMY!” moments of your life. It struck such a chord with moms. Yes, life can be a beautiful mess...
by Arlene | May 21, 2014 | Podcast, The Latest ...
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by Arlene | May 12, 2014 | Parenting, The Latest ...
I know what many of you are thinking… How did it get to be May? How is summer just around the corner? I listened to a recent Focus on the Family broadcast about “Managing Your Family’s Summer Schedule.” Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley discussed...
by Arlene | May 4, 2014 | Parenting, The Latest ...
A few years ago, I purchased this little toy named Gabbit because I wanted to get my family talking. When you press a button, you hear a question. You answer the question and then pass it along to a family member. Ethan got the question, “If you could spend a...
by Arlene | Apr 29, 2014 | Marriage, The Latest ...
There are many moments in my life when I think, “I need to follow the advice in my own book!” Case in point… In the introduction of 31 Days to Becoming a Happy Wife, I write about how I (reluctantly) went mountain biking with James when we were dating. I didn’t...
by Arlene | Apr 23, 2014 | Marriage, The Latest ...
On Tuesday, James and I had the thrill of being guests on The Today Show with Kathie Lee and Hoda. We love these ladies! Watch the segment here. We arrived at Rockefeller Center around 9:15 am. The young lady who checked us into the Green Room had been working at...
by Arlene | Apr 22, 2014 | Marriage, The Latest ...
Are You a Happy Wife? Take this quiz and find out. 1. I believe that I have control over my happiness, not my circumstances. __ Agree __Disagree 2. My husband and I do not yell at each other or give one another the silent treatment. __Agree __Disagree 3. I am...
by Arlene | Apr 21, 2014 | Marriage, The Latest ...
The last time I was in New York City, this is how close I got to being on The Today Show. If you squint, you can see Kathie Lee and Hoda in the middle of the picture. My publicist and I walked by and dropped off a book for the producer to consider. Although nothing...
by Arlene | Apr 17, 2014 | Podcast, The Latest ...
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by Arlene | Apr 14, 2014 | Parenting, The Latest ...
This year, I came up with a brilliant plan to put a twist on the traditional Easter Egg Hunt. Actually, the idea came from my second grade daughter which made it all the better. So, you know there’s got to be candy involved because it’s Easter. But maybe...
by Arlene | Apr 8, 2014 | Parenting, The Latest ...
If you told me when James and I were first married 15 years ago that we would be doing martial arts together, I would have laughed in your face. Being Asian doesn’t mean I know karate. James would always joke, “Don’t mess with my wife. She’s...
by Arlene | Apr 1, 2014 | Health, The Latest ...
When was the last time you were still? Remember the words of Psalm 46:10, “Be still and know that I am God. I will be exalted among all the nations. I will be exalted in the earth!” You may not be able to sit on a rock overlooking a stream today (most...
by Arlene | Mar 26, 2014 | Marriage, The Latest ...
Here’s a joke I can relate to: Wife: I baked two kinds of cookies today. Would you like to take your pick? Husband: No, thanks. I’ll use my hammer. Yup…James didn’t marry me for my cooking or baking skills (although my grilling skills are...
by Arlene | Mar 21, 2014 | Books I Like, The Latest ...
I am happy to share a resource for your family from authors Rob and Joanna Teigen. As parents of 4, they are have written a guide for fathers to pray for their daughters titled A Dad’s Prayers for His Daughter. You can imagine the difference it makes for a...
by Arlene | Mar 18, 2014 | Parenting, The Latest ...
I love this picture of my son taken at the Scripps Aquarium in San Diego. It’s a picture that reminds me of childlike wonder. To be drawn to a magical underwater world. To see a (really) big fish. To capture the moment with your camera because you want to...
by Arlene | Mar 12, 2014 | Podcast
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by Arlene | Mar 11, 2014 | Health, The Latest ...
This past weekend, I had the honor of speaking at a women’s retreat in Wisconsin. The ladies at Breakaway were amazingly open and warm hearted. The Holy Spirit was so present. And there was much laughter! As I described a few things to my kiddos, my son said “That...
by Arlene | Mar 3, 2014 | Health, The Latest ...
February was a busy month. With 31 Days to Becoming a Happy Wife releasing on February 1, there were many things to do. Radio interviews. Guest blog posts. Speaking engagements. Reaching out to wives about the book. And working with my (wonderful) editor on my...
by Arlene | Feb 24, 2014 | Marriage, The Latest ...
My favorite moment of the Sochi Olympic Winter Games? Watching Meryl Davis and Charlie White ice dancing. Pure magic. I love to watch their stunning figure skating and the joy on their faces. I think they light up the screen. Next favorite moment: Noelle...
by Arlene | Feb 17, 2014 | Podcast, The Latest ...
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by Arlene | Feb 11, 2014 | Marriage, The Latest ...
Remember how you first met your spouse? James and I met at Regent University in Virginia Beach. He was studying for a Masters in Divinity and a Masters in Business. I was studying for a Masters in Journalism. But of course, I was praying to also get that coveted MRS...
by Arlene | Feb 5, 2014 | Marriage, The Latest ...
With my new book 31 Days to Becoming a Happy Wife in bookstores like Family Christian, Barnes & Noble, and Amazon, I’ve been asked a lot about happiness. Isn’t happiness a selfish goal? What if I’m just not a very cheerful person? What is...
by Arlene | Jan 28, 2014 | Health, The Latest ...
Nine years ago, I needed help losing weight. I was forty pounds up, thanks to a little baby named Ethan! My ever-helpful husband James told me to try a spin class that a neighbor, who just happened to be a personal trainer and body builder, was having in her 3-car...